Episode 153

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1st Jul 2026

Using Expressive Arts to Help Anxious Kids with Dr. Roxanne Daleo

Dawn Friedman MSEd interviews Dr. Roxanne Daleo, an expressive arts and somatic therapist who works with kids and families. Daleo describes her early work with hospitalized and terminally ill children and how training at Harvard, including Dr. Herbert Benson’s relaxation-response research, shaped her focus on the mind-body connection and breath. She explains expressive arts therapy as a nonverbal, right-hemisphere approach using music, rhythm, imagery, drawing, painting, and other art forms, emphasizing process over product and why it can fit children who resist talk therapy. Daleo discusses somatic principles, psychoneuroimmunology, and examples from hospital settings where imagery and art supported calming and healing. She shares practical techniques for parents, guided imagery storytelling, resources on her website, and a free “Head and Heart Anxiety Reset” call.

00:00 Introduction

02:21 Roxanne's Origin Story

05:28 What Are the Expressive Arts?

07:37 Why Expressive Arts Over Talk Therapy for Kids

08:20 Somatic Work & the Mind-Body Connection

28:26 Working with Perfectionist Kids

31:53 Storytelling & Guided Imagery

40:42 Breathing & the Holistic Approach

44:58 Resources & How to Connect with Dr. Roxanne

Download Dr. Daleo's story, The Magic Seed: Courage as an mp3:

http://drroxannedaleo.com/roxanne_daleo_magic_seed_1.mp3

Her website is at: http://drroxannedaleo.com

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Tell Me It Will Be OK is the conversation for parents of anxious kids who have read all the books, listened to all the experts, and still feel like something is missing.

Host Dawn Friedman, MSEd, has spent over thirty years in the trenches with families as an educator, family case manager, and clinical counselor. She knows that in a world of climate crisis, political upheaval, and digital noise, there is no such thing as a "quick-fix" script or a one-size-fits-all solution. Parenting bright, sensitive, and anxious children requires more than just a new technique—it requires a paradigm shift.

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